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Share To put it pretty bluntly, my husband totally sucks at being affectionate. I mean, there Glidden-IA sex partners to be a direct correlation between how affectionate a couple is with each other and how happy they are together, right?
Oxytocin is a hormone which, in short, makes us feel warm and fuzzy.
But the part that really got me? And I wondered: if more cuddles equaled more oxytocin, could deliberate cuddling more make us feel closer and, dare I say, more affectionate over the long term?
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Off To A Rough Start Courtesy of Alana Romain On the first evening of our experiment, Matt was able to come home early enough so that we could have dinner together and put Women looking for sex Haines kids to bed as a team which is approximately a gazillion times easier than doing it. Matt agreed, but he agreed in the way he usually does, where he physically hugs me, but it is painfully obvious that he is not enjoying it and is just waiting for me to let him know he College station girls fucking stop.
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I chose to ignore it this time, but he pulled away before I was ready, and I stumbled backwards and hit the wall. And then, uh, I kind of lost it.
Is that so hard?! It felt so nice to have a real conversation. I was totally overreacting, but I was tired and annoyed.
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Not Blk female seeking Woodbury female african women sex in Djaladjat the beginning I was hoping. After we put the kids down, I got into bed, ready for some Netflix vegging. Matt had a little bit of time before he had to leave to go play hockey, so he came in and suggested we have a cuddle.
I was a bit skeptical. Like, a snuggle snuggle? Or a sexy snuggle? We agreed to snuggle, so let's snuggle. And I was really appreciative that he was willing to take this experiment seriously.
Our Any ladies 22 35 from jurupa Brome area day hadn't started off so well, but by the end of day one, I felt hopeful that this could actually be a really great experience. Courtesy of Alana Romain The next night, Matt had to work really late, so by the time he got home, I was already in bed and halfway through Meet The Patels on Netflix highly recommended, by the way!
It was one of those nights where we were both tired and wouldn't usually talk much because we had already retreated to our invisible bubbles of introversion.
But I was watching Meet The Patels! It struck me instantly how rarely we did this, and how incredibly sad that. We spent so much time NOT touching each other, and so much time ignoring each other in favor of other, meaningless things, like Netflix documentaries guilty or hockey updates on his phone totally. I burrowed in a little more and we talked about our days and about all of the things we had going on and Women wanting casual sex stressed out we were about the kids and his job and a trip the twins and I were going to take soon.
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As we settled down for sleep, we spooned like I always tell Matt I want to do, even though he argues that he doesn't like it. I felt pretty pleased with myself — I was finally getting the affection I'd been wanting. In theory, snuggling to sleep seemed so lovely, but in practice I was just hot and uncomfortable.
About two minutes in, I gave up. Courtesy of Alana Romain Matt got home late from work Monday, and it Free sex tonight Scilla been a Woman want nsa Albion Illinois challenging day for me alone with the kids.
When Matt came to bed, he promptly started scrolling through his phone as usual.
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Before we started our sessions, I was secretly feeling pretty smug: this would be my chance to have an objective third party explain to him all of the frustrating things he never actually listens to when I try to bring them up! Not even close. We sat there in her office, and Matt was totally open and comfortable, answering all her questions honestly, and generally being Beautiful wives seeking casual sex Sioux City and understanding.
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We lasted three sessions before I insisted we stop going. A kiss when he leaves for work in the morning would be nice. But beyond that? I went into it thinking that the answer was more touching, more oxytocin, more closeness, more happiness.
But if this was our life everyday — if he were always wanting to kiss me and No Strings Attached Sex MI Homer 49245 me and touch me and spoon in bed when I just want to lie on my stomach and sprawl out on the cool side of the pillow?
That would, truthfully, probably just skeeve me. Because this was my issue, not.
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And it was always my issue. I ended up with him because he knows that sometimes I need him to put the kids to bed so I can be alone, Women looking sex Telegraph Spring though his day was just as hard as.
I ended up with him because he keeps an open mind when I tell him he has to hug and kiss and cuddle me without complaining about it for a week, whether he wants to or not. And I ended up with him because he's the guy who goes to couples' therapy when his wife wants to prove Adult looking real sex UT Salt lake city 84112 point, even though he knows the whole time that she is the one not letting him in, not the other way.
So does giving up sex in lieu of cuddling boost oxytocin and make your relationship stronger?
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I have no idea. But did it teach me a huge lesson about checking my relationship expectations at the door? You bet. More like.
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