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Fire away: sexquestions globeandmail. The question: I consider myself quite the feminist — I really think gender equality is very important, but sex with my new boyfriend has me questioning my feminist ways.
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We have been having sex for three weeks now and it gets physical. To my surprise, I have found I like to be dominated.
He hits me during sex and chokes me, and I actually like it. I find myself asking for it. How can I be a feminist and still enjoy this? Free Luxemburg sex ads
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Only you can determine what that dash is. Colleagues blushed, friends gushed and every softball girl, dog-park lady, and oversharing waitress I asked about bedroom domination said they'd consider themselves a feminist, but they also enjoy being "thrown around a little" by their partner. Picture successful, convertible-driving, classic-rock hot blonde.
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A quick glance at her Twitter at my desk and I'm feeling a little short of air. Let him know you like it, but establish a safety al with him before he places his hands around your neck. And this should go without saying, but let's say it any way: If ever there is a time this "bedroom play" is non-consensual, you end that relationship on the spot.
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All is fair in love and war and the bedroom. You like what you like; if it's choking, so be it.
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